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(En español aquí: La marcha de las Dakinis).
I was thinking of our big temple in Ulverston, England, for example, the original temple for world peace based on the mandala of Heruka. This seems to have a very clear structure, with pillars and chairs in rows, ordained at the front and lay at the back, orderly rules for behavior, and even security. However, it’s also clear that this temple is the home of the Dakinis — they’re everywhere. If you look up at the walls, you will see that they have escaped from the glassed-in shrine cabinet and are flying around the room 😉
Carrying on from this article, Sky Dancers.
As Venerable Geshe Kelsang says on page 84 of The Oral Instructions of Mahamudra:
The Heroes and Dakinis who are the emanations of Heruka and Vajrayogini pervade everywhere throughout this world, and people receive their blessings and special care.
Relating to the unobstructed power and blessings of the Dakinis and Dakas, what is it and where does it come from? Bliss and emptiness — ecstatic compassion and non-dual wisdom. Not super reality, just reality.
Remembering them and how they have our back gives us immense freedom, an immense feeling of flight. We can think, I am a Space Goer. Or a Sky Dancer. As mentioned earlier, that is the meaning of “khandro”, the Tibetan word for Dakini.
I have noticed that the Dakinis always laugh when I take myself or anyone else too seriously. We can get wrapped up with appearances, even or especially if they seem to be virtuous — and this can make us rigid and/or judgmental of ourself and others. If we begin to feel heavy, even a little, then we need to remember our Dakini nature, remember who we really are at heart. Wild, that is untamed by ordinary conceptions, and compassionately blissful.
The still point of the turning world
I’ve always loved this quote by TS Eliot:
At the still point of the turning world. Neither flesh nor fleshless;
Neither from nor towards; at the still point, there the dance is.
In the sphere of emptiness anything is possible. Everything is a momentary manifestation of the emptiness of our blissful clear light mind, like a pure dream, a pure dance. Our Spiritual Guide and the Sky Dancers will give us everything we ever wanted, providing from our side we are doing the daily work of loving all beings and overcoming self-grasping and hallucinations. That’s the deal.
“Don’t squeeze me!”, a lover once told me, because, as it turned out, he had a broken rib. Like a moth enjoying a flame without feeling the need to fly right into it, we can learn to blissfully enjoy the mere appearance of everything providing we give up the grasping.
There is that question in Heruka Tantra:
Who are you and what do you seek?
Our Spiritual Guide and Dakinis will take us wherever we want to go, so where exactly is that?!
What is the deepest compassion?
Another name for Dakini is “khachö”, which literally means “space (or sky) enjoyer”! (Same “chö” as in Buddha’s Enjoyment Body (chö ku) for those of you interested in etymology or impressing people at parties.) Dakinis and Dakas are always enjoying themselves. That is surely what we want for ourselves and everyone?
I have noticed in the past some survivors’ guilt, “How can I aim at being all happy and cheerful inside when so many people are suffering so grievously?” But I’ve come to see that I don’t need to be drowning as well in order to commiserate with others who are drowning – no, it’s better to be happy, it’s ok to be blissful, and that joy is meaningful. The best, or in fact only, place from which to help pull people out of the wretched ocean of samsara is the dry land of reality; and reality IS bliss and emptiness.
What is real compassion, what do we really want for everyone? If your Spiritual Guide, for example, only wanted you to be free from this headache or from this financial quandary, would that be enough for you? I doubt it. He is our Spiritual Guide because he wants us to be free from ALL delusions and mistaken appearances, in other words to be free from suffering and experience the reality of enlightenment day and night. I think we have to want that for everyone. That seems to be real love and compassion.
Jewel in the box
Je Tsongkhapa revitalized the organization and moral discipline of the spiritual communities of Tibet. And he did this not to create an assembly of goody two shoes just for its own sake, let alone an organization of uptight practitioners; but in order to help everyone everywhere realize their outer, inner, and secret natures, ie, get enlightened. Venerable Geshe Kelsang has been doing exactly the same since he arrived in the West in 1977.
If we get caught up in the appearances of our organization such that we become institutionalized, I think we run the danger of losing the plot. To me that would be like having a jewel box without a jewel inside it. What is the jewel of our tradition? Bliss and emptiness, enlightenment. This lies at the heart of our tradition and is our common destination. So, if we want to fly in the sky, we don’t repress that feeling, believing that we are not ready for it or that it is somehow dangerous.
In that meeting with my teacher, he also talked about the importance of women practitioners and Dakinis – and then he transformed into a Dakini and walked around the room. On the surface he is a pure, kind, reliable Buddhist monk. Inside he is always motivated by universal love and compassion. And deep down, who is he secretly?!
So, Dakinis are trying to get us up into the sky, we just have to go with it. If you’re ever feeling a bit squished, a bit rigid or repressed, worrying what other people are thinking of you, for example, don’t be. Or if you’re pushing, stop. If you have a chip on your shoulder, stop. All those worldly concerns, let go of them. That’s not what our tradition is about. If you ask me, anyway.
Instead, we need to remember our outer, inner, and secret natures: we need to be outwardly ethically kind and a relatable, trustworthy example, inwardly deeply loving, and secretly FREE.
If we practice like this, we will be receiving joyful blessings day and night – and blessings lift our mind and help us see that everything is in fact ok. Even delusions and mistaken appearances are ok because they are not really there, and therefore we will overcome them. Whenever they arise, they are helpfully reminding us that they are there to be dissolved away, like mist in the sunshine of wisdom and compassion.
We talk about “the precious celestial mansion as extensive as the three thousand worlds” – and I believe that this is what we are doing with the New Kadampa Tradition. We are building Heruka and Vajrayogini’s powerfully blessed mandala everywhere, for everyone; and the Dakas and Dakinis are simply longing to help us.
Over to you, comments welcome!
Building temples for world peace
This article has really helped to increase my faith. Thank you so much.
I’m very happy to hear it 😀
My pleasure, so glad to hear that.
Just stumbled across this beautiful article after OTSG! How insightful and uplifting. Let’s go dance with the dakinis tonight tomorrow and every after 💃💃💃🌹🙏😁
Answer to my prayer to Geshe-la only moments before I came upon your article. Breathtaking. Immense gratitude.
Thank you so much, just what I needed this morning, it’s lifted me already 😊 ❤️ 🙏
Ecstatic compassion, blissfully compassionate, untamed by ordinary conceptions, secretly free, fly in the sky, space enjoyer, immense freedom…thanks for the energy of these words!
This article was very timely! 🙏🏼 Thankyou!
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Thanks for this reminder Luna! Appreciate how you always keep things practical and relatable!
I’ve always wondered what Geshe-la means by practitioners “with the least fortune.” We’re of course fortunate to have received HYT teachings and empowerments but my personal distractions are huge and my concentration is poor.
I’d love to say that my HYT practice is strong, but I’m basically only doing an abbreviated version of Blissful Path with my mantra recitation commitment everyday. My faith in Vajrayogini is strong, however 🙂 Thank you as usual for revving us up with Tantric articles!
Thanks for the inspiration 🙂
Thank you for another very beautiful blissful article Luna,especially,the mist of the delusions will be dissolved away by the sunshine of wisdom and compassion.🙏❤️💙😊 x
happy you like it 🙂
Thanks for encouraging us to focus on what we CAN do rather than what we can’t 😉
yes, always a good idea.
I loved your article. The heavy feeling of institutional confinement was just danced away by the joy and love of the dakinis. Wonderful.
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Thank you Luna. Beautiful article ….”powerful blessed Mandalas everywhere, for everyone”.
Thanks so much ! I LOVED reading this and am going to remind myself to read it often,
especially this bit-
“we need to be outwardly ethically kind and a relatable, trustworthy example, inwardly deeply loving, and secretly FREE.”
and I love the word skydancer. I am going to meditate on just this word a bit too.
Thanks! x x x x
Thank you x 💓
That really is the most sublime article. Thank you so much.
I’m happy you think so, thank you.
I love this posting. It is amazingly helpful. Much love, Susan
Maybe my favorite article of all time. Maybe it arises at the specific time where I am able to benefit. Thank you 🙏❤️🌈
Aw, so glad you like it.
This was the PERFECT message for a busy Friday morning, trying to cram in a bunch of work before I go on a NKT retreat! (ha, ha — the Dakinis are laughing long and loud at me right now!) Thanks so much for your sage, perky and FUN reminders of what this precious human life is really about!
My pleasure! Hope you have a lovely retreat.