A very handsome man, to my eyes, just walked into this London café on what looked to be a date with a woman sitting here. “Lucky her,” I was half-thinking; but in the time it took for him to buy a coffee + croissant and offer this to her with a charming smile, she had changed her mind: “Oh, no, thank you, I actually just want to sit here with my…
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Lately I’ve had no time to develop a full blown article from up my sleeve, so I thought I’d share some gentle musings instead. Gratitude Simon from Eritrea told me he is in a good mood because…
Guest appearance by the author of this popular article: Chronic pain & fatigue and the quiet power of Dharma. Rushing to hospital recently with severe pain and other never-before-experienced symptoms, I was admitted for same-day emergency surgery.…
True humility comes from exchanging self with others, which is a blend of compassion and wisdom. As the great mind-training practitioner Geshe Langri Tangpa describes it: Whenever I associate with others May I view myself as the…
Does how we view others come down to what we want out of life? If our main interest is in worldly enjoyments and achievements – for example we crave wealth or accolades – others can be in…
A guest article The Walk for Peace, which has captured the imaginations and hearts of millions of people, ends today in Washington DC. In this guest article, Jan Jemson describes this walk and then shares how it…
One of the things I’ve been thinking I’ll miss about Colorado is the endless space. It may be just “karmic wallpaper”, as a Buddhist nun friend helpfully put it; but the skies are huge, the windows are…
7 mins read One way we can understand the need for deeper refuge is by thinking about what ARE our problems, what are our sufferings,…
A bit more on the subject of delusions and how to get rid of them. Nothing is as it seems If it is true that…
This is the last installment of the how not to worry articles. Breathing meditations can help enormously in instantly alleviating our worry, and anyone can…
In the last article on Buddha and the Brain, I quoted from How to Transform Your Life on how our body and mind are different…
5.5 mins read Happy Buddha’s Enlightenment Day! There were a thousand people at the recent Kadampa Buddhist Festival in Mexico, all receiving Highest Yoga Tantra…
One day in mid-February 2010, a friend, H, shot himself after his car was repossessed. He had also recently emerged from a messy divorce, but…
I recently spent time with some chickens in Cartama near Malaga, where…
Before we get into the meditation on the mind, we need some idea of what…
Strolling on Hampstead Heath recently, an old schoolfriend was telling me how he and his…
Right now, reading this, what is the consciousness you are having of your screen, or…
A guest article by Jan J, a long-term Kadampa Buddhist practitioner. Here are some experiences that remind me how the hidden truth of karma is…
I wrote this on the occasion of the Japanese earthquake some years ago, but Buddha’s advice still holds true. How can we help? “What did you feel…
This is the final installment. For the first two installments, see Five ways to deal with criticism and Five ways to deal with criticism, part…
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Society
5 mins read I got a tiny glimpse today of the pain…
Impermanence
I have had the thought of late that I don’t think I’ll…
Self Confidence
(Originally written during the Covid pandemic, this article is still totally relevant.)…
Buddha nature
Buddhist meditation is said to be the path that leads from joy…