Got blessings?

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What on earth are blessings?!

You, who love all beings without exception,
Are the source of happiness and goodness;
And you guide us to the liberating path. ~ The Liberating Prayer

And what does it mean to say that Buddhas are the source of our happiness? For example:

Buddha’s function is to bestow mental peace on each and every living being every day by giving blessings. We know that we are happy when our mind is peaceful and unhappy when it is not. It is therefore clear that our happiness depends on our having a peaceful mind and not on good external conditions … Through continually receiving Buddha’s blessings we can maintain a peaceful mind all the time. Buddha is therefore the source of our happiness. ~ The Mirror of Dharma

I don’t know about you, but questions about this have come up over the years, such as “Surely we are happy on our own sometimes?! If Buddhas didn’t exist or weren’t around, would we never be happy? Just generating peaceful and virtuous minds is supposed to make us happy, why do we need blessings as well?”

How do I explain this to myself, let alone to people who know nothing about Buddhas? It seems pretty deep and mystical. Can we understand this without relying on blind faith? I’d be interested to hear what you think about this. This is my understanding so far.

Enlightened beings (Skt Buddhas) are beings imputed on enlightenment, who possess enlightenment, who embody enlightenment, who ARE enlightenment. Enlightenment is reality. Living beings are in unreality because of our ordinary conceptions and appearances. We are in darkness because we don’t know we are manifestations of bliss and emptiness; but the light of omniscient wisdom effortlessly finds its way through every chink, and any peace in samsara’s prison comes from this. In his Mahamudra teachings of 2003, Geshe Kelsang says:

Generally every living being without exception receives the blessings of enlightened beings every day, and because of this they will experience from time to time some small inner peace. Without any particular reason, they are happy. This is the function of enlightened beings, their job.

Without the existence of enlightenment, I think we would be practically powerless to be happy. The blessings of Buddhas are the nature of bliss and emptiness, compassion and wisdom, enlightenment. They hold us all up from falling into utter darkness. It is simply far far less effort to go along with our ignorance and other delusions, assuming that everything we see is real. If there was no enlightenment, there’d be only samsara at its worst. No light. The trend toward disorder, the law of entropy, would prevail.

It looks like their minds are generally darkness, covered by self-grasping ignorance. From this darkness, sometimes, from time to time, they develop a positive mind, a peaceful mind, a calm mind, like lightning. ~ Mahamudra 2003

Whenever we are relatively virtuous, non-deluded, and peaceful, at that time our minds are already conjoined with the peaceful non-deluded reality of enlightenment, which means we are already experiencing blessings. Therefore, whenever we experience any degree of inner peace, it is good to recognize that experience as moments of blessing, and enjoy those moments with an understanding of the deep and close connection we have with enlightened beings. When we experience inner peace, right there is our Buddha nature, right there is Buddha, and right there is Buddha’s blessings. When we do this, the blessings and peace grow in power. This works for everyone, in any tradition.

Making an effort to receive blessings

Because in case you were wondering, there is no suggestion that you have to be a believer in Buddha or indeed subscribe to any particular faith to get blessings or to be happy. That would defy all observation and common sense. Everyone has Buddha nature, the potential for enlightenment, and is capable of experiencing inner peace. Everyone receives blessings, often without even trying. Such as this purring cat next to me.

And we can experience these blessings even more if we know what is going on. They become powerful blessings. They can transform us. As it says in How to Transform Your Life, likening the sun to Buddha’s blessings and the closed shutters to our lack of faith:

Even when the sun is shining, if our house is shuttered, only a little light can enter and our house will remain cold and dark; but if we open the shutters, the warm rays of the sun will come pouring in.

All this is probably why our main commitment for refuge in Buddha is to “make an effort to receive Buddha’s blessings”. Venerable Geshe-la said in 2003:

Without receiving the blessings from enlightenment [sic], we are powerless, we have to remain in samsara’s prison in life after life, endlessly.

People in other traditions work on receiving blessings just as Buddhists do. Faith in holy beings makes us receptive to blessings; we believe in blessings and so we receive them more loudly and obviously, like turning on a radio to tune into the radio waves. Take Patricia, for example, who is always wishing me and everyone else a blessed day, “May you be blessed, God bless you.” And who, despite her aches and pains, more often than not has the broadest smile on her beautiful face.

By developing strong faith, our mind will open and the full sun of Buddha’s blessings will come pouring in. ~ How to Transform Your Life

Seeing through the virtual reality

What does it mean if we’re not enlightened? It means we’re not in reality. We are identifying ourselves with delusions and mistaken appearances, believing that’s all there is.

We have mistaken dualistic conceptions about most things, and that includes samsara and enlightenment, if we’ve heard of them – we think they are inherently unrelated, as if they exist in a totally different place and time, but do they? Is it like America being here and Africa being there and never the two land masses shall meet?

Samsara is like a virtual reality that exists within the space of bliss and emptiness – it is pervaded by space and surrounded by space, it’s just that people in that virtual reality don’t know they’re in it. (Or to use another analogy, it is like someone with their head stuck in a cloud of delusion being oblivious to the infinite sky around them.) We believe that everything we see is far more than mere appearance and really exists, solid and real, including all the painful stuff, including even (and especially) our avatar-like self. But we can learn to see through this to the pervasive truth, space-like emptiness and bliss. We can wipe out or purify the source code of our samsaric virtual reality, ignorance, and replace it with the source code of enlightened appearances, bliss and emptiness.

If you imagine switching off all the mistaken appearances of samsara, what is left?

There is a beautiful passage in the Isolated Body chapter of Tantric Grounds and Paths where Venerable Geshe-la explains what life is like for a Yogi or Yogini who has gained the realization of the union of bliss and emptiness:

Once they have this experience, they simultaneously perceive any objects, such as forms, that appear to them as manifestations both of emptiness and their mind of bliss. Because they have a deep recognition of emptiness and their mind of bliss as the same nature, they can view all phenomena that appear to their mind as manifestations of their bliss, and this special way of looking at phenomena causes them greatly to increase their experience of bliss, just as a fire will increase if more fuel is added to it.

May all happiness and joy be fulfilled

May all suffering quickly cease
And all happiness and joy be fulfilled. ~ The Liberating Prayer

Back in the day I asked Venerable Geshe-la about the correct usage of the passive tense “be fulfilled”, when I was a Tharpa editor and sent The Liberating Prayer to prepare for publishing. I even foolishly suggested some other wording, maybe something like “And everyone attain happiness and joy”. But luckily he ignored me because happiness and joy are indeed already here, they don’t need to be attained, they just need to be fulfilled. How? By letting go of the hallucination of mistaken appearances so that our already peaceful Buddha nature can mix with enlightenment permanently.

When we rely on blessings, we can go very deep in our meditations. We can be transported quite rapidly to very pure states of mind, our delusions gradually giving away to an indescribably deep peace that comes from wisdom and connection to the sacred.

And through this we can start to hold the space for others, and our prayers have power:

Please nourish me with your goodness,
That I in turn may nourish all beings
With an unceasing banquet of delight. ~ The Liberating Prayer

This is why, for example, it is legit to focus on one’s mother as Buddha Tara. When we search for our mother using wisdom, we cannot find her in her body, her mind, or anywhere else – the mother we normally see does not exist. There is no inherently suffering living being there. Yet she has performed the functions of Tara for us and so can rightly be identified as such. This recognition allows for huge blessings to pervade the situation and relationship, transforming both of us. Check out this article for more of what Geshe-la said about that.

Allowing ourselves to have this experience

As this is traditional retreat month in the modern Buddhist tradition, I wanted to add one more thing. Sometimes I think that we don’t allow ourselves to go deep because we feel we don’t have time. “I don’t have time to be blissful! I don’t have time to dissolve myself and everyone else away because there are 50 texts awaiting me, the dog is hungry, and I have to get to work!”

One solution is to allocate yourself time each day for a meditation practice, and, however long or short it is, let that be the happiest time of the day when you really do allow yourself to go deep, knowing that everything else can wait till after your session.

Another solution is to do occasional retreats, when “we stop all forms of business and extraneous activities so as to emphasize a particular spiritual practice” – in other words we have all the permission in the world to stop thinking about all our normal stuff. Therefore we can afford to go deep in the sessions and keep that thread of mindfulness throughout the breaks.

Over to you, I look forward to reading your comments 😊

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