Some of you may remember the inappropriate attention I paid to the supposed theft of two bikes two summers ago… bikes that turned out not to be stolen at all.
It is good I’d had the rehearsal earlier! And it would have been way too much of an indictment on my progress as a meditator if I had gone through all those mental acrobatics again… So this time, when we returned from two hours on the beach to the sight of no bike, I was prepared, and stayed totally calm. Imagine that!
(The cynical amongst you might say that I stayed calm because it wasn’t actually the bike that I ride that was stolen – my red bike was still next to the palm tree … Or you might ask who doesn’t feel relaxed after 2 hours on the beach?! You’d have a point. But I still claim a small victory.)
A few conclusions from this latest bike saga:
Everything has a cause
As we started to walk with the remaining bike on the long journey back home by foot, we wondered whose karma it was and what kind of karma it was.
Everything has a cause. Nothing arises from nothing – a phenomenon arises from something that’s in the same substantial continuum. Physical things must arise from physical causes. The cause of an oak tree is an acorn seed, the cause of a flood is rain, and the cause of our human body is the union of our mother’s egg and father’s sperm.
Buddha was a scientist of the mind who penetrated the actual causes of our mental experiences. He observed that if an action is motivated by a good intention, such as compassion, an experience or feeling of happiness results; but if an action is motivated by delusion, such as anger, it is the actual substantial cause of a suffering experience. Also, there are neutral actions that give rise to neutral experiences. Buddha talked in detail about actions that cause negative effects and those that cause positive effects. He helpfully listed ten negative actions to avoid: killing, stealing, sexual misconduct, lying, divisive speech, hurtful speech, idle chatter, ill will, covetousness and wrong view. By abstaining from these, we avoid having to experience their painful results. By practicing positive actions, such as generosity, kindness, patience, cherishing, love, compassion and wisdom, we create the causes for happiness. In this way, we can gain control over the experiences of our life and make it successful.
Bill Meyer put it this way:
Every thought is a seed. If you plant crab apples, don’t count on harvesting Golden Delicious.
Purification and accepting what is
We can also accept patiently if we understand this is all karmic appearance to mind — deceptive appearances with no existence from their own side. Our unbearable situation is the reflection of our own delusions and the karma they spawn, no one else’s fault, which means, very fortunately, that to be happy again we don’t actually have to wait helplessly in the (often futile) hope that others might improve. A good friend once said:
“Leave the object alone. Change the mind.”
Real deep, inner refuge and peace comes from doing this, rather than from struggling with the external situation that seems so inherently painful but in fact is not.
Whatever we think and feel depends on our karma
In this very useful manual explaining everything you need to know about your mind and how it works, it says:
The general function of feeling is to experience the effects of previous actions, or karma. ~ How to Understand the Mind
Feeling is defined as a mental factor (or state of mind) that functions to experience pleasant, unpleasant, or neutral objects. Feeling accompanies every fleeting moment of mind – there is never a time when we are not feeling or experiencing something.
Have you ever come across an object that doesn’t feel pleasant (or good), unpleasant (or bad), or neutral? I can’t think of any; if you can, please let me know in the comments.
In truth, objects are not good, bad, or neutral from their own side – what they are depends on our minds apprehending them, and specifically on the mental factors of feeling and discrimination. Discrimination distinguishes one object from another and, when associated with conceptual minds, functions to impute, label, or name objects. As Geshe Kelsang says:
The defining characteristics of an object do not exist from the side of the object but are merely imputed by the mind that apprehends them.
How we discriminate and experience things depends entirely on our states of mind and our karma. This is rather a significant observation by Buddha.
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Ice cream is horrid! So definitely not nice from it’s own side. I’d much prefer a coffee in a little polystyrene cup. * Depending of course, if the seaside ice cream van / shop we’re visiting sells such a thing. Which of course it should, coffee being inherently nice. There goes Wall’s argument. Buddha’s teachings yet again come up trumps though 🙂
Thanks for these words on Wisdom- I had my cycle lights stolen a while ago and it certainly made me aware of my own attachments. Your’s was a good example of how we can transform adverse conditions if we have the mindfulness to do it…
Mark 🙂
I’ve found lojong training to be powerful also for situations similar to this. The benefits are always excellent with lojong either way it goes. Geshe-la called the book “… Steps to Happiness” maybe for this reason 🙂 have developing minds that want situations like the bike loss to give minds of self cherishing/grasping more reasons to keep declining! 🙂 either this through losing the bike, or, still have the bike. Either is good 🙂
Karma
my story is about Angels, I have always loved statues pictures etc, a man can to me for help after loosing his son who passed in a road traffic accident, this man in my eyes was an Angel himself having to come to terms with his son passing away, finally the man told me he was moving to Dubai to work and I wished him well 😉 after a few months I received in the mail an Angel to wear on a chain around my neck from him, and a note that simply said thank you, I get very emotional even now typing this as I feel so very humble not realising how much I helped him with his pain, then I myself found an Angel to help me in my time of need and gave an Angel to her 🙂 so my message is I believe in Angels something good in everyone I see and have the karma to proove it 🙂 Lotusblossom
Hi, Luna, great words, very inspiring. I have a story about karma, that is very special. Once I was in my advisor´s house, working, and I was leaving when his maid asked me a favor, she wanted me to read her prescription, because she could´t read it. I was a little late to an appointment, and I hesitated, but said ok. While she was going to her bedroom to take the paper, we’ve heard a crash loud noise, and we went out to see what was going on: a car had lost control and crashed right besides my car. You could say that it’s my crazy mind (and probably it is), but I like to think that my action to stay in the house and do a simple good action, prevented me to be envolved in a car crash! It’s like Geshe-la says, a good and virtuous mind protect us from suffering now and in the next lifes 🙂
Wow I needed to read this. I had my bike stolen a month ago from the beach as well.